50 First Dates (2004)

Movie · 2004 · Comedy, Romance · 1h 39m · PG-13 · English

Curator score: 3.0/10 (1.2M ratings)

Imagine having to win over the girl of your dreams... every friggin' day.

Overview

Henry is a player skilled at seducing women. But when this veterinarian meets Lucy, a girl with a quirky problem when it comes to total recall, he realizes it's possible to fall in love all over again…and again, and again. That's because the delightful Lucy has no short-term memory, so Henry must woo her day after day until he finally sweeps her off her feet.

Ratings

Director

Peter Segal

Production

Columbia Pictures, Anonymous Content, Flower Films, Happy Madison Productions

Cast

Adam Sandler, Drew Barrymore, Rob Schneider, Sean Astin, Lusia Strus, Dan Aykroyd, Amy Hill, Allen Covert, Blake Clark, Maya Rudolph, Pomaika'i Brown, Joe Nakashima, Peter Dante, Dom Magwili, Jonathan Loughran, J.D. Donaruma, Wayne Federman, Kent Avenido, Sharon Omi, Glen Chin

Where to watch

AMC, Philo

Curator Review

Verdict

A glossy, high-concept rom-com with a genuinely sweet center, but it leans hard on broad gags and a premise that can feel ethically awkward if you’re not already on board. The chemistry and the Hawaiian setting do a lot of the heavy lifting.

Best for

  • fans of early-2000s studio romantic comedies
  • viewers who like sentimental, high-concept premises
  • people open to broad Adam Sandler humor mixed with sweetness
  • audiences looking for an easygoing date-night movie

Skip if

  • you’re sensitive to consent issues in romantic comedies
  • you dislike crude slapstick or juvenile side characters
  • you want a more realistic or emotionally nuanced love story
  • you’re not in the mood for a movie that repeats its central joke a lot

Overview

50 First Dates is one of the more durable Adam Sandler rom-coms because it understands the assignment: make the premise simple, make the emotions legible, and keep the pace breezy. Drew Barrymore gives the movie its warmth, and the film’s best moments come from the repeated effort of trying to earn trust day after day rather than from the louder comic bits around the edges.

Worth noting

That said, the movie’s charm depends on how much patience you have for broad studio comedy. It swings from genuinely tender to aggressively silly, sometimes within the same scene, and the supporting antics can be hit-or-miss. The Hawaiian backdrop and the Beach Boys needle-drop energy help smooth over a lot, but they don’t erase the fact that the setup is inherently a little uneasy.

Bottom line

If you want a rom-com that is earnest without being polished, and you don’t mind a few cringe-y detours, it still works. It’s not the sharpest or most modern take on romance, but it remains an easy watch with enough heart to justify its popularity.

Top Letterboxd reviews

beck (3★) · 7095 likes

i would want to forget dating adam sandler too

lilian (5★) · 5709 likes

this movie is FUN you guys are just mean

Josh Lewis (3★) · 5287 likes

Adam Sandler's Memento.

anika (4★) · 4750 likes

good morning lucy 😄 here are some things you missed this year: april - snoop quits weed 🥳👍may - snoop back on weed 😊🙌

Vinny Thornburg (1★) · 4425 likes

Imagine you are waking up like normal. You are in your everyday world. No kids, but a fiance. Loving family. You like your life. Suddenly you are told by Adam Sandler that you are actually married to him, have had multiple children with him, and live on a boat with him in Alaska. Repeat this everyday for the rest of your life. Now what if I told you that this isn't a horror movie ending, but a romantic comedy ending?

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Topics

rom-com, memory loss, courtship, slapstick, sentimental, early 2000s, beach setting, broad comedy, second chances, feel-good

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