An Ideal Husband (1999)
Movie · 1999 · Drama, Comedy, Romance · 1h 37m · PG-13 · English
Curator score: 5.4/10 (17.9K ratings)
Tagline: He just doesn't know it yet.
Sir Robert Chiltern is a successful government minister, well-off and with a loving wife. All this is threatened when Mrs Cheveley appears in London with damning evidence of a past misdeed. Sir Robert turns for help to his friend Lord Goring, an apparently idle philanderer and the despair of his father. Goring knows the lady of old, and, for him, takes the whole thing pretty seriously.
Ratings:
- Curator score: 5.4/10
- IMDb: 6.8/10
- Rotten Tomatoes: 85%
- Metacritic: 67
- TMDB: 6.5/10
Director: Oliver Parker
Production: Fragile Films, Icon Productions, Pathé, Arts Council of England, Miramax
Cast: Cate Blanchett, Minnie Driver, Rupert Everett, Julianne Moore, Jeremy Northam, Peter Vaughan, Ben Pullen, Marsha Fitzalan, Lindsay Duncan, John Wood, Simon Russell Beale, Charles Edwards, Oliver Ford Davies, Susannah Wise, John Thompson, Anna Patrick, Delia Lindsay, Denise Stephenson, Jeroen Krabbé, Michael Culkin
Curator Review
Verdict: A polished, witty Wilde adaptation with strong period style, crisp repartee, and a very watchable ensemble. It’s more elegant and playful than emotionally deep, but the performances and costumes make it an easy recommendation for fans of drawing-room comedy and late-Victorian intrigue.
Best for: Oscar Wilde fans; Viewers who like costume drama with sharp dialogue; Fans of 1990s British period films; People drawn to elegant ensemble acting; Romantic-comedy viewers who don’t mind social satire
Skip if: You want a modern-feeling romance; You prefer fast-paced plotting over verbal sparring; You’re not in the mood for manners, hypocrisy, and society games; You want a very faithful emotional gut-punch rather than a light satirical tone
Overview: An Ideal Husband is exactly the sort of polished late-90s literary adaptation that lives or dies on its cast, and this one has the right people in the right clothes. Oliver Parker keeps the tone buoyant, letting Wilde’s wit do most of the heavy lifting while the production design and costumes supply the period sheen.
Worth noting: The movie works best as a game of social performance: public virtue, private compromise, and the way reputation becomes a kind of currency. It’s a comedy of manners with just enough romantic and political tension to keep the machinery moving, even if the emotional stakes never quite become as sharp as the dialogue.
Bottom line: What lingers is the ensemble’s chemistry and the pleasure of hearing Wilde’s lines delivered with confidence. It’s not the deepest adaptation of its source material, but it is an appealing, stylish one, especially if you enjoy elegant hypocrisy being exposed with a smile.
Top Letterboxd reviews:
- clownhead: cate blanchett in those inexplicably tiny glasses is my ideal husband
- ella: girls don’t want boys, girls want soft 90s cate blanchett
- irenedone: MINNIE DRIVER, JULIANNE MOORE, CATE BLANCHETT. THANK YOU @ GAY GODS
- Ida_Owl: reading this comment section made me realize that everyone on letterboxd is gay lol
- Sofia: smash or pass: victorian edition
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An Ideal Husband (1999)
Movie · 1999 · Drama, Comedy, Romance · 1h 37m · PG-13 · English
Curator score: 5.4/10 (17.9K ratings)
He just doesn't know it yet.
Overview Sir Robert Chiltern is a successful government minister, well-off and with a loving wife. All this is threatened when Mrs Cheveley appears in London with damning evidence of a past misdeed. Sir Robert turns for help to his friend Lord Goring, an apparently idle philanderer and the despair of his father. Goring knows the lady of old, and, for him, takes the whole thing pretty seriously.
Ratings
Curator score: 5.4/10
IMDb: 6.8/10
Rotten Tomatoes: 85%
Metacritic: 67
TMDB: 6.5/10
Production Fragile Films, Icon Productions, Pathé, Arts Council of England, Miramax
Cast Cate Blanchett, Minnie Driver, Rupert Everett, Julianne Moore, Jeremy Northam, Peter Vaughan, Ben Pullen, Marsha Fitzalan, Lindsay Duncan, John Wood, Simon Russell Beale, Charles Edwards, Oliver Ford Davies, Susannah Wise, John Thompson, Anna Patrick, Delia Lindsay, Denise Stephenson, Jeroen Krabbé, Michael Culkin
Curator Review
Verdict
A polished, witty Wilde adaptation with strong period style, crisp repartee, and a very watchable ensemble. It’s more elegant and playful than emotionally deep, but the performances and costumes make it an easy recommendation for fans of drawing-room comedy and late-Victorian intrigue.
Best for
Oscar Wilde fans
Viewers who like costume drama with sharp dialogue
Fans of 1990s British period films
People drawn to elegant ensemble acting
Romantic-comedy viewers who don’t mind social satire
Skip if
You want a modern-feeling romance
You prefer fast-paced plotting over verbal sparring
You’re not in the mood for manners, hypocrisy, and society games
You want a very faithful emotional gut-punch rather than a light satirical tone
Overview
An Ideal Husband is exactly the sort of polished late-90s literary adaptation that lives or dies on its cast, and this one has the right people in the right clothes. Oliver Parker keeps the tone buoyant, letting Wilde’s wit do most of the heavy lifting while the production design and costumes supply the period sheen.
Worth noting
The movie works best as a game of social performance: public virtue, private compromise, and the way reputation becomes a kind of currency. It’s a comedy of manners with just enough romantic and political tension to keep the machinery moving, even if the emotional stakes never quite become as sharp as the dialogue.
Bottom line
What lingers is the ensemble’s chemistry and the pleasure of hearing Wilde’s lines delivered with confidence. It’s not the deepest adaptation of its source material, but it is an appealing, stylish one, especially if you enjoy elegant hypocrisy being exposed with a smile.
Top Letterboxd reviews
clownhead (3.5★) · 277 likes
cate blanchett in those inexplicably tiny glasses is my ideal husband
ella (2★) · 275 likes
girls don’t want boys, girls want soft 90s cate blanchett
irenedone (4★) · 189 likes
MINNIE DRIVER, JULIANNE MOORE, CATE BLANCHETT. THANK YOU @ GAY GODS
Ida_Owl (4★) · 146 likes
reading this comment section made me realize that everyone on letterboxd is gay lol
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Topics
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