Beaches (1988)

Movie · 1988 · Comedy, Drama · 2h 3m · PG-13 · English

Curator score: 4.3/10 (59K ratings)

Some Friendships Last Forever

Overview

A privileged rich debutante and a cynical struggling entertainer share a turbulent, but strong childhood friendship over the years.

Ratings

Director

Garry Marshall

Production

Touchstone Pictures, All Girl Productions, Silver Screen Partners IV

Cast

Bette Midler, Barbara Hershey, John Heard, Spalding Gray, Lainie Kazan, James Read, Grace Johnston, Mayim Bialik, Marcie Leeds, Carol Williard, Allan Kent, Phil Leeds, Lynda Goodfriend, Nikki Plant, Michael French, Robert Ball, Frank Campanella, Diane Frazen, Michael Elias, Patrick Richwood

Curator Review

Verdict

A glossy, old-school tearjerker about female friendship, ambition, class difference, and the way life pulls people apart and back together. It’s melodramatic by design, but the performances and emotional payoff make it a strong watch if you’re in the mood for a big, sincere cry.

Best for

  • viewers who like emotional melodramas
  • fans of decades-spanning friendships
  • people seeking a classic weepie
  • audiences who enjoy performance-driven character drama

Skip if

  • you dislike overt sentimentality
  • you want subtle, restrained drama
  • you’re allergic to manipulative cry scenes
  • you prefer plot-heavy stories over relationship-focused ones

Overview

Beaches is unabashedly built to make you feel everything, and it mostly earns that ambition. The film leans into the rhythms of a long friendship: childhood bonding, adult distance, resentment, loyalty, and the kind of love that survives bad timing and bad decisions. It’s a very specific kind of studio-era emotional storytelling, polished, accessible, and not remotely shy about the tears it wants from you.

Worth noting

What gives it staying power is the central relationship. The movie understands how female friendship can be both deeply intimate and maddeningly complicated, especially when class, career, and life choices keep shifting the balance. It’s broad, sometimes corny, and occasionally overstates its hand, but the sincerity is hard to resist.

Bottom line

If you like your dramas with big music cues, big feelings, and a final stretch that aims straight for the heart, this delivers. If you need irony or distance, it will probably feel like too much. But for viewers open to a classic melodrama, it’s a durable and genuinely affecting crowd-pleaser.

Top Letterboxd reviews

ginger● (3.5★) · 962 likes

they should have been lesbians

Wood (2★) · 841 likes

Movies your mom likes cinematic universe.

chris (3.5★) · 738 likes

The B in LGBTQ actually stands for Beaches.

sam (4★) · 683 likes

JACKIE: No. I didn’t thank the fucking dirt for sending us a brain-damaged bear. What is even happening right now? What is wrong with all of you? TAISSA: It’s fine, guys. She doesnt’ have to– JACKIE: Oh, shut up, Tai. You were a part of it, too. I mean, are we really not going to talk about this? We just how at the moon and have fucking orgies now? And somehow I’m the one who did something wrong? BEN SCOTT:… more

kenny · 584 likes

I don’t know why my mom loves these emotionally devastating movies😭😭😭

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Topics

melodrama, tearjerker, female friendship, class divide, coming-of-age, lifelong bond, sentimental, 1980s drama, illness, nostalgia

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