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Departures

A deeply moving, quietly humane drama that turns a taboo profession into a meditation on dignity, grief, and the rituals that help the living let go. It is sentimental, but with enough grace, craft, and emotional honesty to make the feeling earned.

82% (89,766)

Departures

Where to watch: Buy

Movie · Drama · PG-13

2008 · 2h 10m · ★ 82% (89.8K)

The gift of last memories.

Director: Yojiro Takita

Starring: Masahiro Motoki, Hirosue Ryoko, Tsutomu Yamazaki

Overview

Daigo, a cellist, is laid off from his orchestra and moves with his wife back to his small hometown where the living is cheaper. Thinking he’s applying for a job at a travel agency he finds he’s being interviewed for work with departures of a more permanent nature – as an undertaker’s assistant.

Director

Yojiro Takita

Production

TBS, Amuse Soft Entertainment, MBS, Sedic, Shogakukan, TBS Radio

Cast

Masahiro Motoki, Hirosue Ryoko, Tsutomu Yamazaki, Kimiko Yo, Tetta Sugimoto, Toru Minegishi, Tatsuo Yamada, Yukiko Tachibana, Yukari Tachibana, Genjitsu Shu, Taro Ishida, Yukimi Koyanagi, Hiroyuki Kishi, Sanae Miyata, Ryosuke Otani, Mitsuyo Hoshino, Tarō Suwa, Tatsuhito Okuda, Rin Uchida, Ryoichi Suzuki

Curator Review

Verdict

A deeply moving, quietly humane drama that turns a taboo profession into a meditation on dignity, grief, and the rituals that help the living let go. It is sentimental, but with enough grace, craft, and emotional honesty to make the feeling earned.

Best for

  • viewers who like emotional but restrained dramas
  • fans of Japanese cinema and cultural storytelling
  • people interested in grief, ritual, and end-of-life themes
  • audiences who appreciate gentle, character-driven films

Skip if

  • you want fast pacing or high conflict
  • you dislike overt sentimentality
  • you prefer bleak realism without emotional uplift
  • you are uncomfortable with death-related subject matter

Overview

Departures finds unexpected warmth in a subject most films approach with dread. By following a laid-off cellist who stumbles into work preparing the dead, it builds a story about shame, purpose, and the quiet dignity of care. The film’s greatest strength is how seriously it treats ritual: every gesture feels deliberate, tender, and human.

Worth noting

It is openly emotional, and sometimes leans hard into that feeling, but the performances and visual calm keep it from tipping into manipulation. The contrast between social embarrassment and sacred labor gives the film real resonance, especially as Daigo slowly comes to understand what his work means to the families he serves.

Bottom line

This is a film for viewers who want to be moved, but not cheaply. It is elegant, compassionate, and rooted in a strong sense of place and tradition. If you are open to a drama about death that is ultimately about life, it leaves a lasting impression.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Ayush (4★) · 268 likes

Bidding the final farewell. With grace and respect, the lifeless body is cleaned before their mourning family. They have lost a dear one, but the face they see for the last time will not be dull and cold. Rather, it would look full of life even as the heart beats no more, the eyes are shut forever, and the expression remains unchanged. Departures is unabashedly sentimental. Hisaishi's score sweeps us off our feet in a hurry, and we're admittedly emotionally… more

allain♡ · 149 likes

Beneath Death’s somber veil lies tenderness the world seldom speaks of. The strong scent of formaldehyde. Hair gently combed. Thickly applied makeup. Garments ironed with reverence. Each are but serene gestures of love for a life that once bloomed, breathed, lived, walked amongst us. To care for the dead is a sacred calling; taboo to most, offers glory to none, yet still a labor that eventually touches every single soul in time. And though the Grim Reaper may arrive without

Two Cineasts (5★) · 126 likes

Film reviews in 22 sentences (or less)Today: Departures „The most personal journey is the last one, made by others. A moving film that is a prime example why I love Japan: westernization and traditions hand in hand, taking part in globalization but never losing their history.“(The Two Cineasts) Hi everybody, it's been a long time since a movie triggered such opposing and strong emotional outbursts in me in the matter of seconds, as I couldn't keep my eyes… more

theyo theyo (5★) · 116 likes

this movie stabbed me in the heart and gave me a warm hug

Eye Ball (5★) · 114 likes

A truly great piece of film making. Departures is a beautifully acted Japanese movie, which managed to utterly immerse me into the fascinating life of Daigo Kobayashi, a successful cellist, who suddenly finds that his orchestra is to be disbanded. This life has been a safety net and the regular income vanishes leaving Daigo with no money to pay for the brand new cello he has just bought and is facing big debts. Daigo has to go home and explain… more

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Themes

grief, death rituals, dignity in labor, family reconciliation, small-town life, identity and purpose, tradition vs modernity, emotional healing

Topics

Japanese drama, grief, funeral rites, quietly emotional, humanist, small-town, tradition, life and death, sentimental, character study

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