Don Jon (2013)

Movie · 2013 · Romance, Comedy, Drama · 1h 30m · R · English

Curator score: 1.9/10 (434.4K ratings)

Everyone loves a happy ending.

Overview

A New Jersey guy dedicated to his family, friends, and church, develops unrealistic expectations from watching porn and works to find happiness and intimacy with his potential true love.

Ratings

Director

Joseph Gordon-Levitt

Production

Ram Bergman Productions, HitRecord Films, Voltage Pictures

Cast

Joseph Gordon-Levitt, Scarlett Johansson, Julianne Moore, Tony Danza, Glenne Headly, Brie Larson, Lindsey Broad, Rob Brown, Jeremy Luke, Paul Ben-Victor, Italia Ricci, Amanda Perez, Sarah Dumont, Sloane Avery, Loanne Bishop, Arin Babaian, Arielle Reitsma, Rizwan Manji, Eva Mah, Nina Agdal

Where to watch

Amazon Prime Video, Amazon Prime Video with Ads

Curator Review

Verdict

A brash, uneven debut that mixes sex-comedy energy with a sincere critique of fantasy, masculinity, and intimacy. It’s funny, sharp in bursts, and more thoughtful than its premise suggests, but the tonal swings and broad characterizations won’t work for everyone.

Best for

  • Viewers interested in flawed male-protagonist comedies with a self-aware edge
  • People curious about a direct, pop-culture-heavy take on porn addiction and modern dating
  • Fans of debut films that are messy but ambitious
  • Audiences who like romantic comedies that drift into drama and moral self-examination

Skip if

  • You want a subtle or emotionally delicate treatment of sexuality
  • You’re turned off by crass humor and repeated porn jokes
  • You prefer fully nuanced characters over satirical types
  • You dislike movies that feel like a first-film experiment

Overview

Don Jon is a movie with a blunt instrument for a subject and a surprisingly earnest heart. It starts as a swaggering bro comedy about a guy who thinks he has his life under control, then slowly reveals itself as a story about compulsive habits, emotional immaturity, and the gap between fantasy and real intimacy.

Worth noting

Joseph Gordon-Levitt leans hard into the character’s Jersey-guy bravado, which is part of the joke and part of the problem. The film is often funniest when it’s exposing how empty his routines are, and most effective when it lets Julianne Moore complicate the movie’s moral center.

Bottom line

As a debut, it’s uneven and sometimes too on-the-nose, but it has enough confidence, rhythm, and nerve to stay interesting. If you can tolerate its broadness, it’s a smart, watchable little provocation rather than just a raunchy one-note comedy.

Top Letterboxd reviews

David Sims (2★) · 3493 likes

eyyy dis porn addiction's really bustin my cannolis

as (3★) · 2352 likes

Is it bad that I recognized some of the porn in this....?

#1 gizmo fan (2★) · 1598 likes

when brie larson finally spoke and saved the greasy sausage man... cinema was reborn

Karsten (3.5★) · 1046 likes

I really don't care what anyone says, I could watch this movie over and over again and still love it.

john (2.5★) · 991 likes

This was the weirdest way to find out Joseph Gordon-Levitt isn't gay.

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Topics

sex comedy, romantic dramedy, male insecurity, addiction, relationship satire, coming-of-age, millennial dating, crass humor, emotional growth, indie debut

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