Laurence Anyways (2012)

Movie · 2012 · Drama, Romance · 2h 48m · PG-13 · French

Curator score: 8.4/10 (94.2K ratings)

Overview

The story of an impossible love between a woman named Fred and a transgender woman named Laurence who reveals her inner desire to become her true self.

Ratings

Director

Xavier Dolan

Production

Lyla Films, MK2 Films, ARTE France Cinéma

Cast

Melvil Poupaud, Suzanne Clément, Nathalie Baye, Monia Chokri, Susan Almgren, Yves Jacques, Sophie Faucher, Magalie Lépine-Blondeau, Catherine Bégin, Emmanuel Schwartz, Jacques Lavallée, Perrette Souplex, Patricia Tulasne, David Savard, Monique Spaziani, Denise Filiatrault, Violette Chauveau, Mylène Jampanoï, Jacob Tierney, Gilles Renaud

Curator Review

Verdict

A bold, emotionally maximalist melodrama about gender identity, love, and the wreckage of devotion. It’s long, stylized, and intentionally overwhelming, with striking visual invention and a performance style that some viewers will find transcendent and others abrasive, but it’s absolutely a major work of queer cinema.

Best for

  • viewers who like passionate, operatic relationship dramas
  • fans of visually expressive, highly stylized filmmaking
  • people interested in trans narratives and queer cinema
  • audiences open to messy, emotionally intense characters

Skip if

  • you want a restrained or naturalistic drama
  • you’re looking for a neatly affirming trans story
  • you dislike long runtimes and heightened melodrama
  • you prefer subtle, low-key relationship films

Overview

Laurence Anyways is one of those films that announces itself with total confidence: big emotions, saturated images, and a romantic scale that treats private pain like a public event. Xavier Dolan stages the story as a feverish memory of love and self-invention, using music, costume, and camera movement to turn transition, desire, and heartbreak into something almost mythic.

Worth noting

What makes it linger is the collision between its tenderness and its volatility. The film is fascinated by the way love can be both shelter and trap, and it refuses to smooth over the damage that comes with wanting someone to remain legible to you. That tension gives the movie its force, even when its characters feel more like emotional weather systems than fully settled people.

Bottom line

It’s not an easy or universally embracing film, and some viewers will find its perspective on trans experience frustrating or dated. But as a piece of cinema, it’s remarkably assured: visually inventive, emotionally maximal, and committed to turning interior upheaval into something you can feel in your body.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Wes (5★) · 1968 likes

so if im understanding this correctly: xavier dolan can drop one of the greatest films ever made in his early 20s, meanwhile in my early 20s the highlight of my week is i got to try the new taco bell nacho fries

Lucy (3★) · 1187 likes

at this point i'd watch paint drying for 3 hours if it was made by xavier dolan

Sally Jane Black · 837 likes

This is like Transamerica but twice as long and somehow more offensive. The trans character is shown to be not a human being at all but a brooding, stalking burden on her cis partner. There is nothing about this film that shows any respect for trans people; there is nothing about this film that shows any respect for any people, really. It's just nearly three hours of a bad relationship between two ciphers, one of whom is superficially explained to… more This is like Transamerica but twice as long and somehow more offensive. The trans character is shown to be not a human being at all but a brooding, stalking burden on her cis partner. There is nothing about this film that shows any respect for trans people; there is nothing about this film that shows any respect for any people, really. It's just nearly three hours of a bad relationship between two ciphers, one of whom is superficially explained to… more

maya (4.5★) · 573 likes

can xavier dolan direct my life

Eli Hayes (4.5★) · 536 likes

In his early twenties, Dolan already had the directorial power to turn a simple hallway sequence into an incredible display of human emotion. So many faces. Throughout this whole film,so many beautifully photographed faces. I can see what he means when he says he's more inspired by photography than film; it shows in the way that he captures imagery as if he's trying to communicate moments to his audience, moments that build on top of one another into fragments… more

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Topics

queer drama, trans identity, melodrama, romantic tragedy, stylized visuals, emotional intensity, 2010s cinema, relationship turmoil, art-house, identity crisis

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