Loveless (2017)

Movie · 2017 · Drama · 2h 2m · RU

Curator score: 8.3/10 (81.4K ratings)

A missing child. A marriage destroyed. A country in crisis.

Overview

Zhenya and Boris are going through a vicious divorce marked by resentment, frustration and recriminations. Already embarking on new lives, each with a new partner, they are impatient to start again, to turn the page – even if it means threatening to abandon their 12-year-old son Alyosha. Until, after witnessing one of their fights, Alyosha disappears.

Ratings

Director

Andrey Zvyagintsev

Production

ARTE France Cinéma, Senator Film, Why Not Productions, Les Films du Fleuve, Non-Stop Productions, Fetisoff Illusion

Cast

Maryana Spivak, Aleksey Rozin, Matvey Novikov, Alexey Fateev, Marina Vasilyeva, Andris Keišs, Nataliya Potapova, Sergey Borisov, Anna Gulyarenko, Artyom Zhigulin, Maxim Solopov, Sergey Badichkin, Tatyana Ryabokon, Maksim Stoyanov, Lyubov Sokolinskaya, Varvara Shmykova, Natali Starynkevich, Yevgeniya Dmitriyeva, Irina Krivonos, Oleg Grisevich

Curator Review

Verdict

A punishing, rigorously controlled domestic tragedy that uses a missing-child premise to expose emotional vacancy, marital cruelty, and social decay. It’s not warm or cathartic, but it is devastatingly precise and visually unforgettable.

Best for

  • Viewers who want bleak, serious art-house drama
  • Fans of slow-burn emotional devastation and social critique
  • People drawn to cold, immaculate cinematography and restrained performances

Skip if

  • You want comfort, catharsis, or a hopeful ending
  • You dislike emotionally distant or deliberately austere filmmaking
  • You prefer plot-driven mysteries over mood and allegory

Overview

Loveless is a film of absence: absent tenderness, absent responsibility, absent any illusion that adulthood guarantees maturity. Andrey Zvyagintsev turns a family collapse into something larger and more chilling, suggesting a society where private cruelty and public indifference feed each other. The result is less a melodrama than a diagnosis, delivered with surgical calm.

Worth noting

What makes it so hard to shake is the precision of its form. The camera observes with icy patience, the performances feel sealed under pressure, and every domestic space seems spiritually exhausted before the story even begins. The missing-child plot gives the film urgency, but the deeper horror is that no one in the adults’ world seems capable of love, only grievance and self-preservation.

Bottom line

This is not an easy recommendation for mood, but it is an essential one for viewers who value severe, uncompromising cinema. It’s bleak in a way that feels earned rather than decorative, and it lingers because it refuses consolation.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Matt Singer (3.5★) · 632 likes

Ladies and gentlemen, I give you the worst date movie of the decade.

#1 gizmo fan · 356 likes

My mother has been through the worst of the worst. She lost her child, which she always tells me is something no one besides a parent would ever understand. She grieved with me and by herself, and although I know what loss is, I don't think I will ever understand what she went through. Watching this film made me feel nothing. I think it was supposed to, which is why I don't absolutely hate it, but I've never felt like… more

Jonathan White (5★) · 317 likes

Loveless TIFF 2017 film #2Reason for pick - director Andrey Zvyagintsev - Leviathan, The Return It’s hard to say you’re looking forward to seeing a new Andrey Zvyagintsev film, as you know you’re in for a whole lotta hopelessness and despair, yet like a moth to the flame, I’m drawn in yet again. Once again, Zvyagintsev delivers a masterpiece of gut wrenching gloom. One of the qualities I marvel at is how he can can be both distant and… more

Josh Lewis (3★) · 228 likes

A ruthlessly bleak domestic breakdown as a microcosm of a national, political one or simply a movie about a kid who runs away because his dad listens to Bring me the Horizon?

reibureibu (4★) · 192 likes

Who would've thought that in a film titled "Loveless" there would be no love? But genuinely, it's a film that is so cold, so cruel, and so unabashedly callous (and not the impassioned kind, no, the kind that has abandoned all notions of reconciliation years ago) that watching it is a feat on its own. There's a family, but it's all facade. The father is in a new relationship with a child on the way, the mother in one with… more

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Topics

art-house drama, bleak tone, slow burn, social critique, family tragedy, cold cinematography, contemporary Russia, psychological realism, moral emptiness, despair

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