My American Uncle (1980)

Movie · 1980 · Comedy, Drama, Romance · 2h 6m · French

Curator score: 7.8/10 (17.9K ratings)

Overview

Professor Henri Laborit uses three people's stories to discuss behaviourist theories of survival, combat, rewards and punishment, and anxiety: René is a technical manager at a textile factory and must face the anxiety caused by corporate downsizing; Janine is a self-educated actress/stylist who learns that the wife of her lover is dying and must decide to let them reunite; and Jean is a controversial career-climbing writer/politician at a crossroads in life.

Ratings

Director

Alain Resnais

Production

Philippe Dussart, TF1, Andrea Films

Cast

Gérard Depardieu, Nicole Garcia, Roger Pierre, Nelly Borgeaud, Pierre Arditi, Gérard Darrieu, Philippe Laudenbach, Marie Dubois, Henri Laborit, Bernard Malaterre, Laurence Roy, Alexandre Rignault, Véronique Silver, Jean Lescot, Geneviève Mnich, Maurice Gauthier, Guillaume Boisseau, Ina Bedart, Ludovic Salis, François Calvez

Curator Review

Verdict

A dense but unusually playful hybrid of fiction, essay film, and social theory. It’s best approached as a sharp, funny, intellectually restless study of behavior, anxiety, and social conditioning rather than a conventional drama.

Best for

  • viewers who like challenging European art cinema
  • fans of essay films and formal experimentation
  • people interested in psychology, sociology, and human behavior
  • audiences who enjoy multi-strand narratives with philosophical narration

Skip if

  • you want a straightforward plot
  • you dislike films that interrupt drama with theory or lecture
  • you prefer emotionally direct, character-only storytelling
  • you have little patience for ambiguity and digression

Overview

Alain Resnais turns a set of interlocking lives into a cinematic argument about instinct, social pressure, and the scripts people inherit. The film is constantly shifting between drama, commentary, and observation, but that instability is the point: human behavior is shown as something both deeply personal and mechanically conditioned.

Worth noting

What makes it work is that the ideas never fully smother the characters. The three storylines have real comic bite, melancholy, and social texture, and the film keeps finding slyly absurd ways to make theory feel lived-in. It can be demanding, but it is also unusually lively for a film this cerebral.

Bottom line

If you like cinema that treats form as thought, this is one of the more rewarding examples of that impulse. It’s not a puzzle to “solve” so much as a system to experience, and Resnais makes the experience feel nimble, ironic, and humane.

Top Letterboxd reviews

theriverjordan (4★) · 156 likes

“Mon oncle d'Amérique” is the rare film where form and character exist in service of theory. Of course - theory emerges from the mind of man, and so - is equally as fallible as the wills and desires of those who create it. Alain Resnais’ “Mon oncle” is a multi-narrative movie, with allegorical tangents that correspond to the philosophies of real life French neurologist Henri Laborit. In addition to fictional narratives within the work, Laborit himself appears to offer commentary… more

Robert Beksinski (4.5★) · 124 likes

Mon oncle d’Amérique is a film that I am almost positive is on par with some of Alain Resnais greatest works but it is also one of his most challenging thus taking much more effort and repeated viewings to fully grasp and encapsulate the magnificent scope of life he presents here. In many respects the collaboration between Resnais cinematic prowess and philosopher Henri Laborit's "theories on evolutionary psychology regarding the relationship of self and society"* combines to make a jarring… more Mon oncle d’Amérique is a film that I am almost positive is on par with some of Alain Resnais greatest works but it is also one of his most challenging thus taking much more effort and repeated viewings to fully grasp and encapsulate the magnificent scope of life he presents here. In many respects the collaboration between Resnais cinematic prowess and philosopher Henri Laborit's "theories on evolutionary psychology regarding the relationship of self and society"* combines to make a jarring… more

spap1 (4★) · 93 likes

i. life watches us at every turn, like the predacious bird,waiting to swoop upon it’s innocent prey,caught so off guard in it’s blissful ignorance,merely merrily going on about it’s daily exercises,those exercises which taint every minute of a daywith pre-decided tasks. the routine of the everyday,breeds a complacency so devout that it becomes a form of religion,and in that separated region of existence,we become vulnerable to any attack which might,just perhaps,… more

nick (4★) · 85 likes

Miles more accessible than Last Year at Marienbad or Hiroshima, My Love, My American Uncle is a relatively friendly entry in Alain Resnais' glorious filmography, further expanding his razor sharp, at times playful dissection of human conditions. With a wittily crafted style of intercut of multiple storylines as well as between voiceover and narration, Resnais successfully manufactured another one of his complex yet fascinating human study that's as inviting as it's highbrow and unreachable. My American Uncle ultimately deals with… more

Sally Jane Black · 72 likes

If you torture two rats, trapped in the same place, they will fight, much as if you drive humans into situations, circumstances, a whole life of pain and dissatisfaction, they will fight, get sick, and/or attempt suicide. What this film shows us, as if we were watching a university psychology lecture, is that Henri Laborit, a leading scientist on the matter, has a theory connecting these two ideas. It delves into the neurology behind it all, and it suggests that… more If you torture two rats, trapped in the same place, they will fight, much as if you drive humans into situations, circumstances, a whole life of pain and dissatisfaction, they will fight, get sick, and/or attempt suicide. What this film shows us, as if we were watching a university psychology lecture, is that Henri Laborit, a leading scientist on the matter, has a theory connecting these two ideas. It delves into the neurology behind it all, and it suggests that… more

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Topics

art-house, psychological drama, essay film, French cinema, nonlinear narrative, intellectual comedy, social satire, 1970s/1980s, human behavior, philosophical

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