My Life as a Dog (1985)

Movie · 1985 · Drama, Comedy · 1h 42m · SV

Curator score: 8.3/10 (41.4K ratings)

It could have been worse. I've actually been lucky. If you compare...

Overview

A boy, obsessed with comparing himself with those less fortunate, experiences a different life at the home of his aunt and uncle in 1959 Sweden.

Ratings

Director

Lasse Hallström

Production

SF Studios, FilmTeknik

Cast

Anton Glanzelius, Tomas von Brömssen, Anki Lidén, Melinda Kinnaman, Kicki Rundgren, Lennart Hjulström, Ing-Marie Carlsson, Leif Ericson, Christina Carlwind, Ralph Carlsson, Viveca Dahlén, Johan Widerberg, Manfred Serner, Jan-Philip Hollström, Arnold Alfredsson, Fritz Elofsson, Didrik Gustafsson, Per Ottosson, Magnus Rask

Where to watch

Max

Curator Review

Verdict

A tender, funny, and quietly devastating coming-of-age film that balances childhood mischief with real grief and emotional instability. Its empathy for an awkward, imaginative boy and its lived-in rural setting make it a standout for viewers who like bittersweet human stories.

Best for

  • coming-of-age drama fans
  • viewers who like bittersweet humor
  • fans of European art-house cinema
  • people drawn to child-centered performances
  • audiences who appreciate gentle melancholy

Skip if

  • you want a fast-paced plot
  • you dislike stories about illness and loss
  • you prefer broad comedy over understated humor
  • you need a neatly resolved ending

Overview

My Life as a Dog is one of those rare coming-of-age films that feels both delicate and emotionally sturdy. It understands how children use imagination to survive pain, and it treats Ingemar’s misbehavior, loneliness, and tenderness with real compassion rather than judgment.

Worth noting

What makes it linger is the tonal balance: the film is often very funny, but the humor never cancels out the sadness underneath it. The rural Swedish setting, the episodic structure, and Anton Glanzelius’s remarkably natural performance give it the feeling of a memory you can almost touch.

Bottom line

It’s a film about loss, resilience, and the strange ways kids make sense of adult suffering. If you like your coming-of-age stories bittersweet rather than sentimental, this is an easy recommendation.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Iman Vellani (4.5★) · 619 likes

This was my high school drama teacher’s favourite film, and when I watched to impress him, I told him that I, too, loved this film. If I’m being frank, however, ain’t NO way fake ass 14 year old me understood why this was so great soooooo upon revisiting 8 years later, here are my findings: - Movie makes for affordable contraception. - Movie delivers some of the most innocent and empathetic performances I’ve seen in a while. - Movie somehow encourages… more

Sean Baker · 245 likes

A revisit after three decades that felt like a first time watch. I found it much funnier than I remember. It's interesting how the events and situations become more amusing as Ingemar's life becomes more unstable. Incredible child performance by Anton Glanzelius Arrow Academy Blu-ray: - Come On Then! (Kom igen, nu'rå!), a 1981 TV film by Hallström about a 35-year-old footballer (played by Swedish pop star Robert Broberg) looking back over his life- Original theatrical trailer- Reversible… more

Rafael "Mister Movie" Jovine (4★) · 174 likes

ON THE ROAD: SWEDEN - LAND OF THE TALL, THE SOUNDS, IKEA, ABBA & THE ICE HOTEL The 80s and 90s were filled with these very offbeat yet interesting coming-of-age stories. Not that they have fully disappeared, but they are never at the same quantity or level as they used to be. On this Academy Award-nominated film (Best Director/Adapted Screenplay), we follow the life of a very colorful, strange kid with an affinity for his dog who’s sent to live with… more

Marcy Webb (4.5★) · 130 likes

Floyd is obviously a trans boy and Ingemar is extremely gay for him and nobody can convince me otherwise

upik (4★) · 123 likes

simple coming of age but it really hits. it’s sad, but told in a light, sometimes funny way. kinda shows life can be messy, but you just deal with it your own way.

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Topics

coming-of-age, bittersweet, Swedish cinema, childhood, grief, family drama, dramedy, rural setting, 1980s, art-house

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