The Girl Next Door (2004)

Movie · 2004 · Comedy, Romance · 1h 50m · R · English

Curator score: 1.6/10 (536.6K ratings)

Matt never saw her coming... but all his friends had!

Overview

Exceptionally ambitious high schooler Matthew has aspirations for a career in politics when he falls in love with his gorgeous 19-year-old neighbor, Danielle. But Matthew's bright future is jeopardized when he finds Danielle was once a porn star. As Danielle's past catches up with her, Matthew's love for her forces him to re-evaluate his goals.

Ratings

Director

Luke Greenfield

Production

Epsilon Motion Pictures, Regency Enterprises, New Regency Pictures, Daybreak

Cast

Emile Hirsch, Elisha Cuthbert, Timothy Olyphant, Christopher Rodriguez Marquette, Paul Dano, James Remar, Timothy Bottoms, Donna Bullock, Jacob Young, Brian Kolodziej, Amanda Swisten, Sung-Hi Lee, Ulysses Lee, Harris Laskawy, Julie Osburn, Laird Stuart, Dane Garretson, Richard Fancy, Catherine McGoohan, Josh Henderson

Curator Review

Verdict

A very 2000s sex-comedy-romance with an awkwardly earnest heart, but also a lot of male-gaze fantasy and uneven handling of Danielle’s character. It works best as a time-capsule teen comedy with surprising sweetness and a strong supporting cast, less as a thoughtful romance.

Best for

  • Viewers nostalgic for early-2000s teen comedies
  • Fans of awkward coming-of-age stories with a raunchy edge
  • People who enjoy movies that mix sincerity with broad comedy

Skip if

  • You want a modern or nuanced take on sex work
  • You’re sensitive to misogynistic framing or objectification
  • You dislike cringe-heavy teen comedy and tonal whiplash

Overview

The Girl Next Door is one of those early-2000s movies that feels both shameless and strangely sincere. It borrows the structure of a horny teen fantasy, then tries to turn it into a story about growing up, ambition, and seeing another person beyond the story you’ve built around them. That tension is the movie’s biggest asset and its biggest problem.

Worth noting

The cast helps a lot. Emile Hirsch sells Matthew’s earnestness, and the supporting players give the film more comic energy than its premise deserves. There are also flashes of real melancholy under the jokes, which is why the movie lingers more than a disposable sex comedy usually does.

Bottom line

Still, the film is very much trapped in a male-fantasy perspective, and Danielle is often more concept than character. If you can accept that limitation, it’s a watchable relic of its era: messy, crude, occasionally sweet, and unmistakably of its time.

Top Letterboxd reviews

ethanscalione (3.5★) · 5095 likes

paul dano has a huge dick

lovelytropico ♰ (3★) · 4816 likes

i could definitely tell it was directed by a man

manilazic (2★) · 3267 likes

I want a remake that focuses on the actual girl next door rather than on the fantasy-world of the boy. She could also have feelings and thoughts of her own! That'd be nice.

Bianca · 2187 likes

was not at ALL prepared for an elliott smith song only 4 minutes in

Eli Hayes (3.5★) · 2063 likes

"Eli, do those girls go to your school?" "Actually, no, Mrs. Kidman, they're porn stars."

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Topics

2000s, teen comedy, romantic comedy, coming-of-age, raunchy, awkward, male gaze, nostalgic, sex work, dramedy

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