The Lobster (2015)

Movie · 2015 · Comedy, Drama, Romance · 1h 59m · R · English

Curator score: 7.3/10 (1.4M ratings)

An unconventional love story...

Overview

In a dystopian near future, single people, according to the laws of The City, are taken to The Hotel, where they are obliged to find a romantic partner in forty-five days or are transformed into animals and sent off into The Woods.

Ratings

Director

Yorgos Lanthimos

Production

Scarlet Films, Haut et Court, Eurimages, Lemming Film, Element Pictures, Nederlands Fonds voor de Film

Cast

Colin Farrell, Rachel Weisz, Olivia Colman, Léa Seydoux, Michael Smiley, Ariane Labed, John C. Reilly, Ben Whishaw, Angeliki Papoulia, Jessica Barden, Emma O'Shea, Ashley Jensen, Roger Ashton-Griffiths, Anthony Dougall, Anthony Moriarty, Sean Duggan, Roland Ferrandi, Imelda Nagle Ryan, Jacqueline Abrahams, James Finnegan

Where to watch

Max

Curator Review

Verdict

A sharply absurd, bleakly funny dystopian romance that turns dating, conformity, and emotional survival into deadpan satire. It’s cold on the surface but surprisingly tender underneath, with a singular comic voice and strong visual control.

Best for

  • viewers who like dark satire and deadpan humor
  • fans of offbeat romance with existential stakes
  • people drawn to dystopian social allegories
  • audiences who enjoy awkward, precise, highly stylized filmmaking

Skip if

  • you want warm, conventional romance
  • you dislike cruelty, emotional distance, or absurdist comedy
  • you prefer fast-paced plotting and clear emotional payoff
  • you need characters to behave realistically

Overview

The Lobster is one of those rare films that feels both brutally funny and deeply sad at the same time. It takes the social pressure to couple up and turns it into a nightmare bureaucracy, where romance becomes a survival game and loneliness is treated like a crime. The joke is always a little cruel, but the movie understands why the cruelty lands: it’s exposing how absurd our rules about love can be.

Worth noting

Yorgos Lanthimos stages the whole thing with a deadpan, ritualized precision that makes every gesture feel slightly off, as if human behavior has been translated by a machine. That formal stiffness is the point, and it gives the film its strange power. The performances, especially Colin Farrell’s, keep the movie from becoming merely conceptual; they make the emotional damage feel real even when the premise is wildly unreal.

Bottom line

What lingers most is how the film refuses easy answers. It mocks romantic absolutism, but it also sees the loneliness that drives people toward it. By the end, The Lobster has the shape of a joke and the ache of a breakup, which is exactly why it sticks with you.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Tooley I Am King (4★) · 20169 likes

There's a scene where Colin Farrell kicks a little girl and for some reason it's the funniest thing I've seen all year.

cinéfila... 🕯️ (4.5★) · 17340 likes

"is there a bisexual option available?" bitch! me too! the fuck!!!!!

rudi (4.5★) · 14556 likes

love the voguing maid in the forest

hollie amanda (5★) · 13812 likes

fuck your zodiac sign what animal would you want to be turned into

Karsten (4.5★) · 10462 likes

imagine directing this

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Topics

dark comedy, dystopian, satire, absurdist, romantic tragedy, deadpan, existential, art house, black humor, near-future

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