When Marnie Was There (2014)

Movie · 2014 · Animation, Drama, Family · 1h 43m · PG · Japanese

Curator score: 7.6/10 (358.9K ratings)

Promise we'll remain a secret, forever.

Overview

Upon being sent to live with relatives in the countryside due to an illness, an emotionally distant adolescent girl becomes obsessed with an abandoned mansion and infatuated with a girl who lives there - a girl who may or may not be real.

Ratings

Director

Hiromasa Yonebayashi

Production

Studio Ghibli, Hakuhodo DY Media Partners, KDDI, Nippon Television Network Corporation, TOHO, dentsu

Cast

Sara Takatsuki, Kasumi Arimura, Nanako Matsushima, Susumu Terajima, Toshie Negishi, Ryoko Moriyama, Kazuko Yoshiyuki, Hitomi Kuroki, Hiroyuki Morisaki, Takuma Otoo, Hana Sugisaki, Bari Suzuki, Shigeyuki Totsugi, Ken Yasuda, Yo Oizumi, Yuhko Kaida, Renge Ishiyama

Where to watch

Max

Curator Review

Verdict

A tender, emotionally observant Studio Ghibli drama that blends mystery, grief, and first-love longing into a quietly devastating coming-of-age story. Its atmosphere, watercolor countryside setting, and ambiguous emotional reveal make it especially memorable for viewers who like gentle films with a hidden ache.

Best for

  • fans of introspective coming-of-age stories
  • viewers who like melancholy, dreamlike animation
  • people drawn to emotional mystery and ambiguity
  • audiences interested in queer-coded or sapphic subtext
  • Studio Ghibli completists

Skip if

  • you want fast pacing or big plot twists
  • you dislike stories built around mood and implication
  • you prefer clear-cut supernatural explanations
  • you are looking for action-heavy family animation

Overview

When Marnie Was There is one of Studio Ghibli’s most delicate films, built less on spectacle than on atmosphere, memory, and emotional drift. It follows a lonely girl whose summer in the countryside becomes a slow unraveling of grief, self-image, and the need to be seen. The film’s haunted-house mystery is effective, but its real power comes from how carefully it treats isolation and longing.

Worth noting

The animation is gorgeous in a restrained way: marshes, old mansions, moonlit water, and empty rooms all feel charged with feeling. The story moves with patience, letting small gestures and recurring visits accumulate meaning. That restraint is part of why the ending lands so hard; the film quietly recontextualizes everything without losing its tenderness.

Bottom line

Some viewers will come to it for the romantic tension and leave debating what, exactly, the film is saying. But even beyond that discussion, it works as a deeply human story about abandonment, family, and the strange comfort of an imagined connection. It is one of Ghibli’s most bittersweet entries, and one of its most emotionally precise.

Top Letterboxd reviews

clem (4★) · 15099 likes

i thought they were...you know....until i found out they were...you know...

👽 Zara 👽 (4★) · 9929 likes

i can't believe studio ghibli queerbaited me

Erika (4.5★) · 5630 likes

I've never felt so betrayed in my life

🦇rosie🦇 (3.5★) · 4253 likes

i thought you were gay, turns out you’re just fam

gabriella (4★) · 3627 likes

when marnie was there?? you mean when anna was accidentally gay for her grandma !!

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Topics

coming-of-age, melancholy, dreamlike, mystery, countryside, ghost story, sapphic subtext, family drama, nostalgic, animated drama

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