20th Century Girl (2022)

Movie · 2022 · Romance, Drama · 1h 59m · Korean

Curator score: 8.4/10 (15.5K ratings)

A first love pov story.

Overview

In 1999, a teen girl keeps close tabs on a boy in school on behalf of her deeply smitten best friend – then she gets swept up in a love story of her own.

Ratings

Director

Bang Woo-ri

Production

Yong Film, CJ ENM Studios

Cast

Kim You-jung, Byeon Woo-seok, Park Jung-woo, Roh Yoon-seo, Kim Sung-kyung, Jeong Seok-yong, Yoon Yi-reh, Jeon Hye-won, Kim Nu-rim, Han Hyo-joo, Lee Beom-soo, Ryu Seung-ryong, Park Hae-joon, Gong Myoung, Ong Seong-wu, Kang Chae-young, Bang Woo-ri, Lee Cheon-mu, Jo Ji-hyeon, Lee Woo-sung

Where to watch

Netflix, Netflix Standard with Ads

Curator Review

Verdict

A bittersweet teen romance with strong nostalgia, sincere emotion, and a late-story gut punch that clearly lands with audiences. It’s especially appealing if you like coming-of-age love stories that start light and end in heartbreak.

Best for

  • fans of wistful coming-of-age romances
  • viewers who like 90s nostalgia and school-era crush stories
  • audiences who enjoy emotional, tearjerker endings
  • people who prefer tender, character-driven romance over plot-heavy drama

Skip if

  • you want a purely fluffy rom-com
  • you dislike melodramatic turns or tragic romance
  • you prefer adult relationships over teen-centered stories
  • you’re not in the mood for a movie designed to make you cry

Overview

20th Century Girl begins like a sweet time-capsule romance and gradually reveals itself as something much more painful. The late-1990s setting is used with real affection, giving the film a warm analog texture that makes every small gesture feel vivid and remembered rather than merely recreated.

Worth noting

What makes it work is the emotional shift: the movie understands the intensity of first love, friendship, and the way teenage certainty can be undone by time. It leans into familiar romance beats, but the performances keep them grounded, and the final stretch lands because the film has earned its tenderness.

Bottom line

This is the kind of romance that invites you in with charm and then leaves you wrecked. If you like your love stories to feel nostalgic, sincere, and a little cruel, it delivers exactly that.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Jo (5★) · 8214 likes

that was such a great movie i want to kill myself now

niesrinn <3 (5★) · 8150 likes

i hate this movie. i just wanted a fun, light hearted romance so i could giggle into my pillow and kick up my feet so why am i fucking bawling my eyes out?? im in agony. im sitting here in my dirty ass room with snot running out of my nose and tears falling out of my eye. who did this? who the fuck wrote this and thought it was okay to market it to me like a movie that… more i hate this movie. i just wanted a fun, light hearted romance so i could giggle into my pillow and kick up my feet so why am i fucking bawling my eyes out?? im in agony. im sitting here in my dirty ass room with snot running out of my nose and tears falling out of my eye. who did this? who the fuck wrote this and thought it was okay to market it to me like a movie that… more

macy (5★) · 3918 likes

never trust those silly movies and tv shows who pass round the 90s they hurt the most.

nabi (4.5★) · 3617 likes

you know what hurts me the most? when woonho's letter to bora, will never be read it

yara (5★) · 2384 likes

r u fucking kidding me.

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Topics

teen romance, coming-of-age, nostalgic, melancholic, late 1990s, first love, friendship, tearjerker, school life, bittersweet

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