Chances Are (1989)

Movie · 1989 · Fantasy, Comedy, Romance · 1h 48m · PG · English

Curator score: 2.4/10 (22.8K ratings)

Alex has a lifetime full of wonderful memories. Unfortunately, they're not his.

Overview

Louie Jeffries is happily married to Corinne. On their first anniversary, Louie is killed crossing the road. Louie is reincarnated as Alex Finch, and twenty years later, fate brings Alex and Louie's daughter, Miranda, together. It's not until Alex is invited to Louie's home that he begins to remember his former life, wife and best friend. Of course, there's also the problem that he's attracted to Louie's/his own daughter.

Ratings

Director

Emile Ardolino

Production

TriStar Pictures

Cast

Cybill Shepherd, Robert Downey Jr., Ryan O'Neal, Mary Stuart Masterson, Christopher McDonald, Josef Sommer, Joe Grifasi, Henderson Forsythe, Susan Ruttan, Lester Lanin, Richard DeAngelis, James Noble, Fran Ryan, Marc McClure, Mimi Kennedy, Kathleen Freeman, Dennis Patrick, Gianni Russo, Franchelle Stewart Dorn, Jacquelyn Drake

Curator Review

Verdict

A breezy, oddball fantasy-romance with an appealing early Robert Downey Jr. performance, but its premise is so awkward that the movie never fully escapes the discomfort it creates. If you can accept a high-concept soap opera with a soft-focus 80s charm, it has enough sweetness and comic invention to be interesting.

Best for

  • fans of offbeat 1980s romantic comedies
  • viewers curious about early Robert Downey Jr.
  • people who like reincarnation or afterlife premises
  • audiences open to sentimental, lightly surreal studio comedies

Skip if

  • you are sensitive to incest-adjacent plotlines
  • you want a clean, modern romcom
  • you dislike dated 80s tonal gloss
  • you need the premise to stay emotionally believable

Overview

Chances Are is the kind of late-80s studio fantasy that feels both polished and wildly misguided. Emile Ardolino stages it with a light touch, and the movie keeps trying to be charming, wistful, and whimsical even as the premise pushes into deeply uncomfortable territory. The result is a film that is easier to admire as an artifact than to embrace without reservations.

Worth noting

Robert Downey Jr. gives the movie its spark, bringing wit and restlessness to a role that could have been purely schematic. Cybill Shepherd and Ryan O'Neal help sell the romantic-comedy machinery, and the film’s best stretches lean into its reincarnation premise with genuine curiosity rather than shock value. There is a real sweetness in the way it imagines fate, memory, and second chances.

Bottom line

But the central relationship logic is hard to ignore, and the ending asks for a level of acceptance that many viewers simply will not grant. For some, that tension will make it memorable; for others, it will make it unwatchable. It is a curious, sometimes charming misfire with a strong cult-movie aftertaste.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Kat (1.5★) · 227 likes

Shooter McGavin dies in a car accident and gets reincarnated as RDJ, but the angels in heaven forget to give him an amnesia shot. So when he meets his former wife and friend his memories come back. He convinces his former wife of who he is and they almost boink, but then he helps his friend boink his wife instead. The angels come down to earth and give him his amnesia shot so he forgets who his true soul is.… more

Satchel (2.5★) · 157 likes

who thought the right ending to this movie would be to erase the dads memories so that he ends up getting together with his own daughter?

eely (2.5★) · 127 likes

imagine getting two lives and getting to make out with cybill shepherd in both of them

irene 🎞 (3★) · 123 likes

young rdj im free on thursday night

carina ☆ (2.5★) · 88 likes

You know what’s fun when you go through an actor’s filmography? You stumble across the most unhinged story ideas for romcoms (spoiler ahead, but I assume nobody wants to watch this anyway). Like, what do you mean? A husband and soon-to-be father gets hit by a truck and dies. He is then reincarnated as Alex Finch (RDJ), falls in love with his daughter from his past life, regains his memories, and hooks up with his former wife — until some… more

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Topics

fantasy romance, romantic comedy, reincarnation, afterlife, identity crisis, forbidden love, 1980s, sentimental, offbeat, cult curiosity

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