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Friendship

A sharply uncomfortable comedy about male loneliness, social desperation, and the humiliations of trying too hard to connect. It’s funniest when it plays Craig’s neediness dead straight, then lets the situation spiral into absurd, cringe-heavy chaos.

51% (486,992)

Friendship

Where to watch: Max

Movie · Comedy · Drama · R

2025 · 1h 40m · ★ 51% (487K)

Men shouldn't have friends.

Director: Andrew DeYoung

Starring: Tim Robinson, Paul Rudd, Kate Mara

Overview

Suburban dad Craig falls hard for his charismatic new neighbor Austin, and his attempts to make an adult male friend threatens to ruin both of their lives.

Director

Andrew DeYoung

Production

BoulderLight Pictures, Fifth Season, Friends Night

Cast

Tim Robinson, Paul Rudd, Kate Mara, Jack Dylan Grazer, Rick Worthy, Whitmer Thomas, Daniel London, Eric Rahill, Jacob Ming-Trent, Billy Bryk, Meredith Garretson, Ari Dalbert, Josh Segarra, Raphael Sbarge, Omar Torres, Jason Veasey, Jon Glaser, Carmen Christopher, Mike J. Mills, Alex Webb

Where to watch

Max

Curator Review

Verdict

A sharply uncomfortable comedy about male loneliness, social desperation, and the humiliations of trying too hard to connect. It’s funniest when it plays Craig’s neediness dead straight, then lets the situation spiral into absurd, cringe-heavy chaos.

Best for

  • fans of cringe comedy and social humiliation humor
  • viewers who like dark comedies about loneliness and masculinity
  • people who enjoy awkward, escalating character disasters
  • audiences open to a mix of suburban realism and surreal comic energy

Skip if

  • you dislike secondhand embarrassment or aggressive cringe humor
  • you want warm, conventional friendship-comedy sentiment
  • you prefer broad jokes over painfully specific behavioral comedy
  • you are put off by characters making everything worse through bad decisions

Overview

Friendship is a brutally funny portrait of a man who mistakes proximity for connection and confidence for charisma. It takes a painfully ordinary suburban setup and turns it into a study of social panic, ego, and the desperate need to belong. The comedy is rooted in embarrassment, but the movie keeps finding fresh ways to make that embarrassment feel both absurd and weirdly human.

Worth noting

Tim Robinson’s performance is the engine: every interaction feels like it could collapse into disaster, and often does. Paul Rudd plays beautifully against that chaos, giving the film a smooth surface that makes the spirals around him even funnier. The result is less a conventional buddy comedy than a cringe-fueled descent into the emotional hazards of adult male friendship.

Bottom line

What makes it stick is that the movie never treats Craig’s need as trivial. Under the jokes is a real ache about isolation, status, and the fragile rituals men use to avoid admitting they’re lonely. It’s sharp, nasty, and frequently hilarious, with just enough empathy to keep the discomfort from curdling into pure mean-spiritedness.

Top Letterboxd reviews

eddyburback · 17948 likes

a true horror about how devastating it is to be a dude who can’t hang

MP Hayes (4★) · 15608 likes

What if you did a bad bit and it ruined your fucking life

Erik (5★) · 12309 likes

We should still be in Afghanistan.

jsamine (5★) · 9691 likes

Tim Robinson’s take on The Banshees of Inisherin and it’s so awesome

Kyle Smith (4.5★) · 7579 likes

starring jimp and tboy

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Themes

male loneliness, adult friendship, social awkwardness, cringe comedy, suburban malaise, masculinity, ego and insecurity, desperate connection

Topics

cringe comedy, dark comedy, suburban satire, male loneliness, awkward social behavior, character study, social humiliation, absurdist humor, midlife crisis, indie comedy

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