Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (2022)

Movie · 2022 · Romance, Drama · 1h 37m · R · English

Curator score: 6.8/10 (133.3K ratings)

It's never too late to try something new.

Overview

Nancy Stokes, a retired schoolteacher, is pretty sure she has never had good sex. Now that her husband has died, she is determined to take a tour of sexual vistas that until now she has only imagined. She even has a plan; it involves an anonymous hotel room, and a sex worker who calls himself Leo Grande.

Ratings

Director

Katy Brand, Sophie Hyde

Production

Cornerstone Films, Genesius Pictures, Align

Cast

Emma Thompson, Daryl McCormack, Isabella Laughland, Les Mabaleka, Lennie Beare, Carina Lopes, Charlotte Ware

Where to watch

Hulu

Curator Review

Verdict

A smart, intimate two-hander that turns a hotel-room hookup into a tender, funny, and surprisingly moving conversation about desire, shame, aging, and self-acceptance. It’s especially rewarding if you like performance-driven chamber pieces that use sex as a doorway into character rather than as spectacle.

Best for

  • viewers who like dialogue-driven character studies
  • fans of mature romance with emotional honesty
  • people interested in sex-positive stories about aging
  • audiences who appreciate strong two-hander performances
  • viewers open to a gentle, theatrical structure

Skip if

  • you want explicit eroticism over emotional conversation
  • you dislike single-location, stage-like storytelling
  • you prefer plot-heavy romance or big dramatic turns
  • you’re uncomfortable with frank discussions of sex and body image

Overview

Good Luck to You, Leo Grande is a compact, sharply observed film that finds its power in candor. What could have been a gimmick premise becomes a humane, funny, and quietly radical portrait of a woman reclaiming her own desire later in life. Emma Thompson gives the kind of performance that keeps revealing new shades of embarrassment, longing, and liberation, while Daryl McCormack brings warmth and ease without flattening Leo into a fantasy figure.

Worth noting

The movie works best as a conversation piece: two people circling each other, testing boundaries, and slowly replacing performance with honesty. Its hotel-room setting gives it a playlike intimacy, but the direction keeps the emotional movement alive and precise. It’s less interested in heat than in the complicated feelings around wanting to be seen, touched, and understood.

Bottom line

There are moments where the script leans a little too neatly into its thesis, but the film’s empathy is hard to resist. It’s a thoughtful, sex-positive drama about shame, age, and the possibility of change, and it lands because it treats pleasure as something serious, not frivolous. The result is modest in scale but unusually generous in spirit.

Top Letterboxd reviews

demi adejuyigbe (4.5★) · 2050 likes

I loved this!! A really great twist on the romcom, structured like a play (in the right way.) The first movie I’ve seen that really nails the idea that sex workers often act as as therapists for their clients and argues for the decrim of sex work by depicting that. Feel a little iffy on an element of the last half that feels like a damaging stereotype but I understand it’s use in the story, I guess. Sally Rooney’s finest work!! (I don’t think Sally Rooney had anything to do with this but there’s a hot Irish guy in it and he’s fucking. Rooney mode.)

Sammy (3.5★) · 1927 likes

A truly lovely movie about Emma Thompson coming to terms with the fact that she’s hot

Ella Kemp (4★) · 1738 likes

The sexiest thing you can be with another person is plain and kind and true about what you want, what you need. Sex can electrify tiny moments but also quietly damage a whole lifetime - even/especially when it’s because simply just a little lifeless, a bit lacking. Daryl McCormack is incredible but, and I mean this very bluntly, you’ve never seen Emma Thompson like this and thank fucking god we have her

Bryan Espitia (3.5★) · 1224 likes

Okay now where’s the movie about the guy who pays Leo Grande to dress up as a cat and then ignore him for an hour, that sounds very interesting

mae (4★) · 1152 likes

nothing sexier than communication

Recommended similar titles

The Sessions

2012 · Drama, Romance, Comedy · 1h 35m · R · Curator 6.3/10 (59K ratings)

A compassionate, conversation-led story about sex, disability, and the emotional meaning of physical intimacy.

Shirley Valentine

1989 · Romance, Comedy · 1h 48m · R · Curator 4.6/10 (16.6K ratings)

A witty, liberating portrait of a woman rediscovering herself and her desires later in life.

Before Sunrise

1995 · Drama, Romance · 1h 41m · R · Curator 9.4/10 (1.9M ratings) · In theaters

Another dialogue-driven two-hander where intimacy grows through conversation, curiosity, and emotional honesty.

45 Years

2015 · Drama, Romance · 1h 35m · R · Curator 8.3/10 (76.5K ratings) · Where to watch: AMC+, Philo, Sundance Now, Acorn TV Apple TV

For its subtle examination of marriage, memory, aging, and the private emotional life of older adults.

The Piano Teacher

2001 · Drama, Romance · 2h 11m · R · Curator 8.5/10 (380.6K ratings) · Where to watch: Max

A darker, more abrasive exploration of repression, shame, and the body’s complicated relationship to desire.

Secretary

2002 · Romance, Drama, Comedy · 1h 51m · R · Curator 5.0/10 (431.6K ratings) · Where to watch: Amazon Prime Video, Philo, Amazon Prime Video with Ads

A provocative but humane look at sexual self-discovery, consent, and unconventional intimacy.

Hope Springs

2012 · Drama, Comedy, Romance · 1h 40m · PG-13 · Curator 4.1/10 (46.5K ratings)

A mature relationship film focused on older adults confronting long-suppressed sexual dissatisfaction.

An Unmarried Woman

1978 · Drama, Romance, Comedy · 2h 4m · R · Curator 8.1/10 (18.3K ratings)

A landmark film about a woman rebuilding identity and desire after the end of a marriage.

A Man and a Woman

1966 · Drama, Romance · 1h 42m · Curator 8.5/10 (43.2K ratings)

A classic romance that values emotional nuance and adult longing over melodrama.

The Lover

1992 · Drama, Romance · 1h 55m · R · Curator 2.4/10 (53K ratings) · Where to watch: OVID

A sensual, reflective drama about memory, desire, and the emotional texture of forbidden intimacy.

My Night at Maud's

1969 · Romance, Comedy, Drama · 1h 50m · Curator 9.5/10 (16.2K ratings) · Where to watch: Max

A talk-heavy, morally alert chamber piece about desire, restraint, and the stories people tell themselves.

The Deep Blue Sea

2011 · Drama, Romance · 1h 38m · R · Curator 7.5/10 (17.7K ratings) · Where to watch: Amazon Prime Video, fuboTV, Philo, OVID, Amazon Prime Video with Ads

A beautifully acted study of passion, shame, and the costs of emotional dependency.

Topics

sex-positive, intimate drama, character study, midlife romance, single-location, theatrical, comedy-drama, female desire, emotional honesty, ageing

Open Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (2022) on Curator TV