On Body and Soul (2017)

Movie · 2017 · Drama, Romance, Fantasy · 1h 56m · HU

Curator score: 7.4/10 (67.2K ratings)

We meet at night. In our dreams.

Overview

Two introverted people find out by pure chance that they share the same dream every night. They are puzzled, incredulous, a bit frightened. As they hesitantly accept this strange coincidence, they try to recreate in broad daylight what happens in their dream.

Ratings

Director

Ildikó Enyedi

Production

Inforg-M&M Film

Cast

Alexandra Borbély, Morcsányi Géza, Réka Tenki, Ervin Nagy, Zoltán Schneider, Tamás Jordán, Itala Békés, Éva Bata, Pál Mácsai, Zsuzsa Járó, Nóra Rainer-Micsinyei, Júlia Nyakó

Curator Review

Verdict

A quietly original romance that turns a bizarre shared dream into a tender study of loneliness, embodiment, and trust. Its deadpan workplace realism and surreal dream logic make it feel both delicate and unsettling.

Best for

  • viewers who like unconventional romances
  • fans of slow, atmospheric European cinema
  • people drawn to dreamlike symbolism and emotional restraint
  • audiences open to awkward, offbeat humor

Skip if

  • you want a conventional love story
  • you dislike slow pacing and long silences
  • you need clear answers and tidy symbolism
  • you are uncomfortable with slaughterhouse settings and bodily imagery

Overview

On Body and Soul is one of those rare films that finds genuine tenderness in a setting that should feel inhospitable. The slaughterhouse backdrop, the clipped routines, and the social awkwardness all sharpen the sense that these people are stranded inside themselves. When the dream connection arrives, it doesn’t play like a gimmick; it feels like a strange permission slip for intimacy.

Worth noting

Ildikó Enyedi stages the film with patience and precision, letting small gestures carry the emotional weight. The result is a romance that is less about grand confession than about learning how to be present in another person’s orbit. The film’s stillness can be distancing, but that distance is part of its point: these characters are trying to cross an enormous internal gap.

Bottom line

What lingers is the film’s uneasy balance of beauty and discomfort. It is funny in dry, unexpected ways, and it is also deeply attentive to vulnerability, shame, and the body as both barrier and bridge. For viewers willing to meet it on its own wavelength, it’s haunting and moving.

Top Letterboxd reviews

Lucy (3.5★) · 542 likes

AFI 2017: film #8 i’m a vegetarian now and also soulmates are real

Wim Wenders · 415 likes

The Hungarian film director Ildikó Enyedi is one of the most brilliant women filmmakers working today. Her film ON BODY AND SOUL from 2017 is an amazing story about dreams and love and longing, and it has deeply moved me when I first saw it. The thought that a man could not have made this film intrigued me a lot. Wim Wenders (excerpt from an introduction published on Acontraplus in November 2023)

Eli Hayes (4★) · 274 likes

"And all at once, you are the one I have been waiting for King of my heart, body, and soul, ooh whoa And all at once, you're all I want I'll never let you go King of my heart, body, and soul, ooh whoa"

Vivian (4★) · 179 likes

me: I truly saw myself represented onscreen for maybe the first time ever. That's how important this year's oscar nominees are. someone: oh yeah Lady Bird really affected me too 💕 it was so relatable me, thinking about the scene where maria is eating gummy bears and watching porn: lady what

Milez Das (4★) · 159 likes

It is not very easy to meet people in real life, even though we might have 100's on social networking sites. There is still the awkwardness involved along with the first word to say and the letting someone in your life. The setting of On Body and Soul might be unusual to form a sensitive love story but who says you can't find love in a slaughterhouse? Endre and Mária work together in a slaughterhouse and have the same dream… more

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Topics

art-house romance, dream logic, slow cinema, Hungarian cinema, surreal drama, lonely hearts, workplace setting, body and identity, quiet melancholy, offbeat love story

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