The Worst Person in the World (2021)

Movie · 2021 · Drama, Romance, Comedy · 2h 8m · R · NO

Curator score: 9.1/10 (985.6K ratings)

Overview

The chronicles of four years in the life of Julie, a young woman who navigates the troubled waters of her love life and struggles to find her career path, leading her to take a realistic look at who she really is.

Ratings

Director

Joachim Trier

Production

Oslo Pictures, Film i Väst, Snowglobe, B-Reel Films, ARTE France Cinéma, MK Productions

Cast

Renate Reinsve, Anders Danielsen Lie, Herbert Nordrum, Hans Olav Brenner, Helene Bjørneby, Vidar Sandem, Maria Grazia Di Meo, Lasse Gretland, Karen Røise Kielland, Marianne Krogh, Thea Stabell, Deniz Kaya, Eia Skjønsberg, Ruby Dagnall, Torgny Amdam, Rebekka Jynge, Sigrid Sollund, Are Skeie Hermansen, Siri Forberg, Sofia Schandy Bloch

Curator Review

Verdict

A sharp, humane coming-of-age drama for adults, blending romantic uncertainty, career drift, and existential dread with wit and emotional precision. It’s especially rewarding if you like character studies that feel painfully specific but broadly relatable.

Best for

  • viewers who like intimate character studies
  • fans of bittersweet romantic dramedies
  • people drawn to millennial/late-20s identity crises
  • audiences who appreciate naturalistic performances and observational writing

Skip if

  • you want a plot-heavy movie with clear resolutions
  • you dislike emotionally messy protagonists
  • you prefer broad comedy or high-concept romance
  • you’re not in the mood for reflective, sometimes melancholy relationship drama

Overview

The Worst Person in the World is the rare contemporary relationship film that feels both featherlight and devastating. It follows Julie through romantic detours, career uncertainty, and the slow realization that becoming an adult does not arrive as a single epiphany. The film’s emotional honesty comes from how casually it lets life change shape around her, without forcing tidy lessons onto the mess.

Worth noting

Joachim Trier’s direction is elegant but never showy, and Renate Reinsve gives a performance that can pivot from charming to wounded to quietly self-aware in a breath. The movie understands how modern identity is built out of indecision, desire, and the fear of choosing wrong. It’s funny in a rueful way, but the humor never undercuts the ache.

Bottom line

What lingers most is its sense of time passing: the feeling that one version of yourself is always slipping away as another takes its place. That makes it less a cautionary tale than a compassionate portrait of being alive at the moment when your life is supposed to be settling down, and discovering it never really does.

Top Letterboxd reviews

margot (5★) · 42903 likes

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maria (4★) · 27841 likes

can't wait for the american remake with dakota johnson

alba (5★) · 25579 likes

babe wake up a new relatable sad girl who feels lost in life just dropped

Megan Bitchell (5★) · 14583 likes

Oh word I’m just never gonna be happy?

john (5★) · 14420 likes

That awful moment when you realize the movie is about you.

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Topics

dramedy, romance, existential, intimate, bittersweet, contemporary, relationship drama, coming-of-age, melancholy, naturalistic

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